Have you ever found yourself setting goals but not working on implementing them?
You are not just supposed to set great goals, but also need to work upon them. Thinking good or having good intentions isn’t great. But working upon your good intentions to bring a positive change in this world is important.
Are you single? and searching for that soul-mate that’s going to make you feel complete and cared for?
You need to know a few steps inorder that you find the perfect match for yourself!
Watch the video above.
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What is EGO? And whom can you label as Egoistic?Ego Definition – The voice inside your head that gives you directions to make your life safe. Its there to connect your soul to your body. And will always think about your safety, security and survival. So if you are endangered then you will get signs that are negative and fearful.
Ego is actually gives to you for your good. Which most people don’t know.
Why everyone has an Ego?
Ego is the entity that is fake and exists inside your mind. And this ego is actually made for your own good. Your soul when gets into a human body, is not aware about the good and bad that exist in this world. And so you would be vulnerable and open to get attacked by the ill’s of this world.
Wouldn’t you attract only good if you didnt have ego, then why the hell was ego given to you?
You might think that if a person is not born with an ego then there would be no critical thoughts and thus you wont be attracting anything that’s bad for you through Law of Attraction.
But life doesn’t work that way.
Everybody is born with certain lessons to learn that that lessons ain’t be rolling out positively. And so there would be negative situations in your life that will teach you to be positive. And so you need to be given an ego that will help you to first to towards your lessons through LOA.
Also children when young don’t know what’s good and bad for them, when they learn good and bad through their experiences; those experiences are stored in their mind which later on become emotional triggers for them to take decisions for their life. So your ego is not given you for your ill, its for your own good.
When can you label a person as EGOISTIC?
The label egoistic is quite tricky, and I myself misunderstood it for quite a lot of years of my life. But when I really learnt what ego is, I was actually spellbound about how true it was.
Ego is the little voice inside you that either inflates you and makes you proud of something that’s not too impressive about you or what you’ve done, and also ego is the same voice inside you that tells you all down and depressing things about yourself when you are not feeling right.
So when you do good and you hear thoughts inside you….
…. That you are too great, and there’s no one who could do the job better then you, then its ego
…… That you are incomparable/ non-replaceable and there will never ever be anyone better then you available to people/ world
……that you are very divine/ better/ spiritual and there are other’s out there who need to respect you (this is usually the voice of ego for the spiritual seekers, be careful)
And on the other side when you are down and depressed, then its your ego that tells you….
…….that you are shameful, disgusting and a looser. You don’t deserve to be at that job/ place/ world
…………..That cannot do it, you are not talented enough to do that
……………..that you cannot get that person/ partner, because you are ugly, obese, not attractive etc.
Did this post strike a cord inside you?
Well I have written this post just to educate you on this topic, so that you too know when your ego is clouding your mentality.
I didn’t know what’s an ego for quite many years, and kept thinking that people only who think too much about themselves are egoistic. But when I learned this, I knew how much egoistic I was. And how big problem it was creating for me.
What is Ego Death?
Ego Death is when the ego dies inside the person, this is a noteworthy phenomenon in a human’s life. The state when you no longer have the negative voice inside you that keeps scaring you and warning is no more and you are open to think broadly, and freely without any limitations.
This state is the highest state that a human can reach.
How you can reach an ego-less state?
Reaching the ego-less state is ofcourse every human’s desire. You would love to live a life when you are no longer guilty, scared of societal criticism, and being fearless of one’s own fears.
This state can be reached by you by following the path of yoga. Not just the postures but following the eight fold path suggested by patanjali.
Yogi’s are the one’s who become ego-less and enjoy the most of their stay on this planet because they don’t have any limitations and setbacks.
It was dated back in 2014 that I was still very much dedicated to the Rider Waite Original deck, and hadn’t thought in my dreams ever that one day I would be banishing this deck completely from my practices!
But it happened. Early in April 2014, I had an app downloaded on my android which gave daily Tarot. And as a lover of Tarot I had opted to receive the daily card every morning.
Within a few days I received the fated 13th card for the first time, I didnt take much heed of it; as I know it just doesn’t always mean ahem. So I neglected it, without studying it much. Then over next 15-20 days it showed up a couple of times in my daily readings, about 4-5 times. Still trying to ignore it without much giving any thought for ‘why that card was following me since past many days!’.
Then feeling totally elated and having a very high feeling, I woke up on 24th. [This is the way I sense spirits released recently from their tired bodies, and making a journey towards the spiritual world. I learned this during this incident, until then I would just ignore that feeling too] and as I am a very strict believer in affirmations as usual I ignored totally putting my phone on general mode. Lazing around I made myself meals to go for next 2-3 days, had bath and just before getting ready to get down to work I decided to have a look at my phone; with a surprise I saw 15 missed calls, about 10 unread messages; which was very rare as nobody calls me during that time of the day.
And I came to know my dad was no more!
It was a numbing feeling.
And not writing any more story of the details thereafter, I would like to jump in here into the D’ card. Horrifying I immediate response was to hide away all my tarot decks, didn’t want to read from them. But then it was my profession, going on well; after all I had begun getting credibility for it and also experience of 9 long years.I didn’t think about I was doing wrong to my profession. And stayed firm on my decision of not bringing rider wait into picture anymore.
Then slowly this idea crept my mind, I had learnt about the Angel Tarot deck. This deck is the Doreen Virtue deck, the mild and gentle deck as it was named. For people who are sensitive. But this deck really helped me to cope up with this TERRIFIC card (lol). As after that instance it turned up a number of times.
So what did it mean then? I actually found a couple of things/ people/ situations which i was facing unnecessarily and had to end them. I was dragging myself in certain relationships, certain situations that just sucked I ended or hopped out of the picture. And that’s how that card proved perfectly its turning up in my reading too. Ending phases that are worthless and beginning new one’s. Which really meant so, a number of phases began and they were much more better.
The card which I felt sucked, actually didn’t. It just showed what was coming up. It showed me clearly about my dad, but I just couldn’t get it. Its said that the spiritual world will reveal truth’s only that much, how much you can bear. And so I guess that was not shown clearly to me.
So rather then freaking out at the appearance of this card, its necessary that you totally check what it means for you. It has n number of different meanings, for all different kinds of people. So you need to figure out what’s in it for you.
There is one big group of people who you see are always happy, even if they have difficulties you always see them surrounded by people who help them or maybe help is always nearby them though whatever it maybe.
And on the other side there are people who try to put so much of effort that it can even tilt the world upside down and yet only few grains of sand seem to budge from their place.
Some seem to be very much positive, and blessed with good things and people and resources; whereas some seem to be just devoid of good things in life? Why so?
What’s the difference…. are some people lucky? and others not?
Everything in this universe happens with 0% effort, means God made this existence and its meant to be. So no matter what you do or don’t do, the universe will continue to exist and be according to God’s plan. So all the things that you are meant to do are always going to come to you easily. Also when I say this some people will think that they always have to make iron rod bending efforts for the tiniest task at hand. But that’s not the fact. Your life’s path is always easy, and effortless. If its difficult, its not your path. Maybe you might be trying to walk path of someone else.
There are also many times that people feel that there are certain lower energies who stop them from doing good things, or there are some bad vibes that make them do bad things to their life.
Well the difference between both the groups of people is that the one who thinks that whatever happens in their life is only because of them, they will always be more positive & successful in their lives.
The one’s who think that there is some bigger force that wants to bring bad things into their life or maybe punish them then they are going to get it! How? because they feel that the force is bigger then them and so they wouldn’t be able to fight it anyhow.
Well, is it really this simple? YES. Life is really very simple. There are few people who never learn “difficult” “impossible” words in their life. They will never give up any task without giving their 100%. Whereas the other group that thinks that God/ higher force wants them to suffer because they are sinners etc will never be able to get into higher places of success. Well it does feel mean to write God here, but yes some people do think that God doesn’t want them to succeed. On the other place there are people who believe that whatever they be or do God is always going to help them, and let only Good flow through them.
There’s one more thing, God does bring hindrances and problems sometimes across your paths. Its not because he wants you to suffer, but sometimes the hindrances are put inorder that you take a better & smoother path. But some people just squat & whine near the stop signal that God has given them. God cant help it! You have to stand up and walk, then only God can give your instinct to move into proper directions. When you decide to just whine & dine over your problems God cant help it. Why? coz humans are born with freewill.
Some people do blame this as lower energy interference’s in their life, but remember you will attract only what you are. If you yourself are low, feel low about yourself/ life then that’s the energy moving around you. To get to higher level & be surrounded by only high energies you need to think high. If you continue to be in the lower level you will be troubled by these lower energies, but if you raise your thoughts and start climbing higher these energies would no longer be with you as they are ‘lower’.
So think and act wisely when you feel the ‘low’. You did something to get low, so you only have to do something to get out of the low.
This must be a new term “Indigo” for most of you reading, and might be some of you must be already be knowing about it. First of all lets know what an Indigo person is.
This individual is the one who has more of indigo color in their aura. And so they are called Indigo person. But that’s not all, their characteristics and personality also differ. And Indigo people are different then normal people. They are 1000 times better/ powerful then people who are ordinary, this should not be taken as an offence by the ones who are not indigo’s; as these indigo’s are born this way so that they can help in better way to raise the normal humans to higher levels.
Indigo people were born usually after 1980’s, some were born even earlier during 70’s. But after 1980 more Indigo’s were born. These children were different from the one’s who are born before this time. And also not all people born after 1980 are Indigo children. Only a few. But yes they are amongst us right now, along with the ordinary people.
So why are these Indigo’s so special? Indigo people are the one’s who are brought to this world to bring a huge shift and make it a better place. The old values, belief’s, traditions that don’t serve humanity and actually are hindering the progress of human minds etc. are the one’s the indigo’s are going to remove from this world. And so these people are going to have quite a fiery personality. They might be also termed as hyper active. But the are gifted with this hyper-ness so that they can help this world shift onto a better energy level.
Indigo’s are extraordinary people as well as are more spiritually aware. They possess super natural abilities and have a sense of knowledge that they are superior then others around them(not out of ego, but out of knowing)
The Indigo children are like-
– they are with very fiery temperament, not that they get angry on anything. But they are the one’s who are born on this planet to bring change. They are the one’s who are going to help the world shake-off old unwanted belief’s, accept better reality and higher values. And so their temperament would strike when they see this not happening and would get furious.
– They cannot tolerate old customs and traditions that don’t make any sense. As some of them are also supposed to bring an end to these customs or break these customs.
– They are fearless, no amount of making to feel guilty or shameful by their parents would work on these children. They will always give very logical or philosophical reasons why certain thing should be done or not done.
– They dont have guilt, shame or fear. These people when were kids were very difficult to upbring as they never were afraid of either parents or any other person.
– Cannot wait, they are very impatient. They always are speeding up, as they are given the life mission to clear up the planet as soon as possible. And they have to do this along with their own clearing of past karma’s. The more they clear themselves the quicker they are getting clearing the world.
Indigo’s are sometimes misunderstood –
Indigo children with their fiery temperament & weird ways of taking life sometimes make them termed as having psychological problems. Usually children with hyper activity are labelled as hyper active. Or some times some are labelled as learning disabled.
But these are not the cases, they know what they have to do as their life’s mission and so they will never do anything that goes against that mission. If an Indigo is supposed to improve the education system then they would never fall a prey to the weaknesses that already lie in the education system of today. They would either not do their homework 5 or 10 times, or they may go further and hold the hand of the teacher who was about to hit them with a cane! In both the cases Indigo knows that knowledge never had to be forcefully fed. Knowledge is always gained best when there’s a thirst for it.
Characteristics of Indigo –
– Strong Willed
– born after 1980’s
– headstrong and very bold
– very creative, always have love for music, art, painting, dancing, poetry
– Behave older then their age
– ability to see or sense energies
– Freedom Lovers, they can never stand a situation where others try to bind them or tie them up to rules. Cannot stand depending on others, or others trying to make them dependent on them.
– Can never ever adjust, compromise or tolerate people, situations or circumstances that they are not comfortable in.
– They are born leaders, never like to follow someone; especially the wrong ones.
– have a desire to help the World in a big way.
– maybe diagnosed with ADD or ADHD
– may have restless sleep, insomnia, nightmares etc. Cannot stand being stagnant at anytime, always on the move.
– Bonds easily with plants & animals, but find difficult to gel with people having older beliefs that don’t work in this world anymore.
– very impatient, cannot wait. They want everything in a breeze. They cannot even wait for a few seconds.
So what to do if you find you are an Indigo?
Well, first thing… heave a sigh of relief. As you know you are normal. I too felt very good about myself when I discovered this. I was always teased by people, as I was very rowdy and highly hyper as a child. Whole colony knew when something bad might have happened to me that feels umm…. ok! now. Also no amount of scaring or frightening would work on me, I know lot of parents try this to make their children go to bed quickly; but when my mom used to scare me of ghosts I used to take her out at midnight for a walk and then she stopped scaring me that way as she herself is afraid of darkness.
If you too find you are an Indigo then first of all you need to figure out the life purpose for yourself. Because unless you are doing it, you would be under huge problems. All indigo’s are born with great responsibilities and so if they are not doing it they would be getting themselves under huge debt. And so might keep on inviting new problems in their life.
Also learn to love and respect yourself the way you are. You have been gifted with this different way of thinking as a gift to help this world. I know by now you might have heard a million times that you are not good because you do this… and that…. But learn to respect your own feelings, as Indigo’s are made to teach the whole of humanity to respect their own feelings as well as those of others’.
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This is a big question, also those people who ask this question are also the ones who would also say that if there would be some God who’s up there then he wouldn’t make these many problems on this planet, he wouldn’t create bad people etc. Well we dont want to get into this topic as I would like to talk about problem solving by angels; and some part of it would also indirectly answer the other question that arises because of the former one.
Angels are divine beings, they lie on a layer that’s between us and God, and they actually are a medium, which helps us to connect to God. Angels are also called messengers as they transfer back and forth our prayers to God.
Angels are divine beings on energetic level, and so have energy bodies. They are not bound by earthly ties, nor they have ever been on this earth as physical beings. Only few lucky souls have got a chance to transform themselves as angels after leaving this physical world. And so angels donot have right to interfere with our individual rights. We can also call it free will.
Free will is the right every human is born with. Actually all animals too have got this upto certain extent but they being lesser intelligent and have medium to no communication abilities are not considered to be as free as us. They too have divine beings protecting them. They dont have those many powers and so are more divinely protected without much of their permission for divine intervention.
But humans need to ask for help all the time, as we are the most intelligent species on this planet and have our own mind and thinking ability to decide for us. Which makes them bound by universal laws, they can step in only when we ask their help or permit them. If not then they would see the entire scene happening just wishing that we ask their help.
What happens when we ask their help?
When we ask angels help then they will quickly step into the picture and give the best and quickest way possible by communicating to you in the best way possible for you to understand. And bet you we all dont interpret angel messages by the same means of communication. We all have different and unique ways of understanding. And angels would try the bestest way possible.
Can they help us, walk the entire path?
This is a big question, and perhaps the most frustrating one. People believe that when they ask angels for help, the whole problem should vanish or get magically solved on its own. Well this does happen in some cases, but angels cannot do this all the time. As they are bound by universal laws, certain life experiences would be needed for us to grow and learn, and Angels would never scoop you out, to help you escape that troublesome situation.
Instead they can help you to walk through the clouds such that you learn from those tough times as well as come out of the blurriness without much trouble.
Also asking Angels help will not make you magically reach your destination. They will help you to clear your path, you still have to walk on it to reach the destination.
No Angel or divine bring would help you to live your life for you. They are not meant for that, they ware meant to only help us. Chef can only prepare good and healthy meals, if we are hungry then we have to eat it ourselves.
There are several theories in religious texts that dont do this, dont do that…. or God will get angry. If God gets angry you will have to bear his wrath, or he might also kill you because you have done sin.
Well let us understand what God is.
Definition of God-
God is the consciousness that was never born or will never die.
He was always there in the past, is in the present and will always be there in the future.
God is formless, but has infinite forms etc.
This is the basic definition of God according almost all religious texts across the world.
So the one who created this universe also created good and bad feeling, he himself made anger, envy, jealousy etc. As according to the definition there is nothing in this cosmos that he didnt create. So the bad emotions were also his creation, then why in the world would be get angry on you for doing bad. And well God is always perfect and always true. The feeling of anger arises when there is some weakness within us that we cannot bear to see in others. Then how is God, who is perfect can even get a feeling like anger?
God made all the good and bad, and he made bad things. people etc but made the good people only more powerful. Because he always wants good to win over bad.